I saw ROROmania , Princess, and Jaz sitting together so I thought 'll drop by and say hi. I went to them and we started talking and i asked RORO if she read my blog. She thought it was good but she did not expect that me a 'brain person" as she described it will fall in love. I got defensive and said" falling in love is part of being human and being a person who uses his/her head or heart does not make you immune to it". We started discussing what it meant to be a heart or a brain person then I added " I think i have a topic for my next post".....
Heart VS. Brain persona
I tried to give a definition but I couldn't so I will just try to list the differences and see what I can come up with.
In case of meeting new people...
A heart person tries to figure out what is his/her feeling about that person. Where, a brain person try to understand that person.
In case of falling in love....
both can fall in love but a brain person struggle to understand why he/she fell in love and how. Where a heart person just accept it and enjoy it while it's possible.
In case of sacrifices...
Both are capable of sacrifice but a brain person will try to count his/her losses before doing that and might take in consideration, if this person I'm going to sacrifice for is worth it or not. However, heart person can not do that. In fact, heart person my sacrifices even if he/she was sure that the person to be sacrifice for is not worth it.
In case of getting hurt...
both can get hurt but a brain person maybe get hurt less because he/she can use their logic e.g if it hurts just walk away. A heart person will always get hurt and if you where a woman and a heart person then you are doomed to get hurt cause most men are within the brain persona and those try to understand emotion not feel it.
Now i will try to define them...
Heart person: is someone who fallow the sound of his emotions, impulsive, a masochistic to some extent, but always enjoy life .
Brain person: is someone who use logic, try to understand life rather than live it, fallow the sound of reason and always try to cut his/ her losses short.
In the end,
There is no just heart or brain person we all are mix of both and maybe one more than the other. Try and find which fits you more maybe then you will find more understanding to who you are?!>>> speaking like a true brain person XD .
And as always being a combo and knowing when to be which is the best.
ReplyDeletei tried being a combo but never been able to loosen up in the brain department :P
ReplyDeleteh3 ...
ReplyDeleteam a heart person i know i am .. but i think am transforming right now .. to reduce the amount of pain ..
BIG LIKE so keep doing it
OMG I could never put it in a very specific manner!!
ReplyDeleteThis post is awesome!! I love it. Thinking about it, I'm not sure what I am :\.. I mean the percentages 'cause I know I'm a combo :p
Heart Predominant Person speaking...broken one time too many, and i would do it all over again. I prefer feeling pain anytime over feeling nothing at all. Both elements existing in harmony with each other is the utmost balance you can reach. I have tried and failed and have come to terms with the person i really am. It takes great strength to do either, so do not feel frustrated. Keep 'em comming!!
ReplyDeleteThanks girls i will do my best to make the next post better i promise.
ReplyDeletethis post is so nice ,i love it
ReplyDeletei think i have balance all the time because that i can not enjoy my time ,but when my balance disturb i became heart person
keep going
i love it demo ..u make very simple ..keep going sweet heart u r perfect (:
ReplyDeletei loved it, simple and true.
ReplyDeletebut the point that the brain person got hurt less than the heart person, i guess that's not true. but the brain person just have the ability of not showing it, and tries to move on but that doesn't make him/her feeling less pain she/he just hide it and make it un clear to other people to notice it but deep down inside i guess they got hurt more than the heart person because when they fall in love they knew that it was the right thing with the right person they wasn't following their hearts they used their brains that's why i guess it hurts more than the people who thinks with their hearts ;)
i agree with you on some points....
ReplyDeleteif the brain person got hurt it's because it did not fallow logic and common sense which are thing a heart person don't care for and might even ignore...
but what i meant is that a brain person always count ahead and does not fallow his/her instinct therefor cut his/her losses before it's to big to control ...
However, non of the two persona gets to chose who he/she fall in love with it just happen and sometimes you hate your self because you know that they are not worthy of you or your love but still you are in love :S
yah, in that point you are totally right. i saw ur point now ;)
ReplyDeletebut here when we know if the love is real love or a fake one, because the real love the love that grows from 2 people. i don't think that a brain person can fall in love with a person who don't give anything to make this love work. i know that we can't control and choose the person we will love, but if the brain person can't find the reason why he/she loved this person then i don't think he/she is a brain person. because knowing why he/she is in love with that person makes her/him different than the heart person.and not knowing why that person is right that makes her/him in no difference than the heart person because in this point they will be thinking in their hearts.
I think that The Heart person feel pain and suffer more than the brain one, because his\her emotions take control for every thing ,their thoughts,dreams,tastes...and eventually their brains can't find a way to take them out of this big emotional control until they just crushed by good or bad ends to their love or fake love story and then their brain starts to take charges
ReplyDelete@ blocker
ReplyDeletei said that we are all mix of both you can't be a heart or a brain person but one might over come the other
and a brain person may look for a reson but dose no mean that he will find where a heart person does not need nor he/she want to look for an answer.
@ Ms.S
i totally agree with you but i believe that they suffer in different ways one with his/her logic and one with his/her emotion.